Last weekend my church's GLBT Alliance group did the service, relating to
National Coming Out Day on October 11th. My friend Denny's story discussed being uncomfortable with the check boxes available to him on a jury duty form, which included Single, Married, Widowed or Divorced. As he and his partner Patrick had a union ceremony in 2006 (I was a groomsmaid!), he didn't feel that any of these fit. He's not married under the law, so it would be improper to check that box. Nor does he consider himself single. He wrote a letter to accompany the form explaining to the courts why this was discriminatory language. One of the many reasons I adore my friends, btw.
So why do I bring this up? Because I was just taking an online survey, and here was how they worded that question:
Clearly the corporate world has figured out they need new verbiage.
The fact that I currently live like a slightly crazy nun would, presumably, put me under "Single or Equivalent", right? Though I wonder how widowed folks would answer this. Would they still consider themselves "Married or Equivalent" or "Single or Equivalent". Tricky.